Discretion, Privacy and Security

It is advisable that you do not use your real or full name on the group. If you have joined using an email address that includes your full/real name, you should consider creating a new Yahoo! ID just for FOCT (and any other adult Yahoo! groups you may be interested in).

Do not mention any identifiable information such as address, place of work or phone number.

Please DO NOT mention anyone else's real or full name, address, place of work or phone number on the group.

It is a very good idea to NOT upload a photo of yourself that shows your face AND your sexual organs in the same shot! Or to send such a picture to anyone. You never know where it might end up...

When arranging to meet someone off the group, take reasonable precautions. Meet in a public place the first time so that you can suss the guy out. If you arrange to go to someone else's home it is a good idea to leave that information with a friend.

Look after your own health. Take condoms and lube with you, don't rely on him to be prepared!

If you meet someone and change your mind do not feel bad about apologising and leaving, at ANY point.

Sturdy